I would like to gain a better understanding of sex and spirituality since many spiritual and religious practices have given instructions and concerns concerning sex. Would you please explain?

Yes, Good day to you dear, both humans and animals enjoy sex as a pleasure and an act of procreation. It can then be said that the same way a person enjoys playing, laughing, eating, running, and all other activities is not so different from having sex. It can seem a very special act to some people and to others it can seem a very normal and natural act.

It is because humans have created a sanctuary around the subject. This then brings about a lot of unnecessary complications, where the idea of “just do it and get over it” becomes very complicated. It has developed this way partly because of the intensity of energy generated between attractive mates. These experiences and feelings make those involved look at it as something very sacred.

There is nothing wrong with how one deals with sex. When it comes to spirituality, the act of prioritizing one thing and treating it as special, results in creating an attachment, while spirituality is about flow, growth, and development. As a result, many ancient spiritual practices decided to develop a method that would reduce this complication. This method would make it mandatory that a person only be involved with one sexual partner. This is because once there is attachment, selfishness lurks. Once there is selfishness, then jealousy and all other degenerative behaviors surface and prevents a person from practicing their spiritual practices correctly.

This is one of the major reasons. Another reason is that the impulses and feelings generated between two mates that lead to them being attracted have a lot to do with biological attractive forces. This is because one body has what the other lacks, thus creating attraction. In addition to this, there are many layers involved in sexual attraction because the primary function of sex is reproduction. Whenever two mates are attracted to each other, there could be spiritual forces involved that act as a bridge to bring another soul to this world. Thus, the alignment between spiritual and sexual attraction is essential for reproduction.

Sexual attraction cannot be confused with spiritual attraction, because there are subtle differences. Sexual attraction pulls individuals toward sexual acts while spiritual attraction gravitates toward admiration, and some people might confuse these two and make spiritual attraction a sexual attraction.

Questions & Answers

QUESTION: What can you say about love and sex?

ANSWER: Love in the context of sex is mostly generated as one person admires another’s personality and thus it is something generated on a personal level, therefore, love becomes more of a choice rather than a result of sexual attraction. Once a person synchronizes love, attraction, and sex, it becomes harmonious.

In addition to this, many confuse ‘Unselfish Universal Love’ and Love. As there are many levels of love, all of which fall under the umbrella of Unselfish Universal Love, which is compassion towards all life. Thus, this Unselfish Universal Love is not a feeling, but a state of being that does not fluctuate like love that is based on relationships.

QUESTION: So, what about soulmates and twin flames?

ANSWER: As we have explained, twin flames and soulmates are attracted towards spiritual energy, thus it can be between family members or even members of the same sex, based purely on spiritual attraction, while some couples have decided to settle for this type of attraction and are comfortable with not being satisfied physically.

QUESTION: So, is being involved with multiple sexual partners bad for spiritual development?

ANSWER: How could it be?

Well, because a person becomes irresponsible and reckless and sometimes hurts other people’s feelings.

Morally, it is considered wrong because that is not the social norm, it is not what the majority of societies have agreed upon. As far as higher spiritual laws are concerned, the most crucial thing is spiritual growth. If multiple sexual partners make one spiritually motivated, then it is a worthwhile idea, but if not, it is not the way to go.

Moderation is the key to spiritual development. A person whose entire life is dictated by sexual urges is spiritually degenerative. Excessive behavior is harmful to your well-being. If guilt consumes you because of being involved with multiple sexual partners, you should stop it, as spirituality is not about being perfect but about improvement and growth. The challenges that arise when one weighs right and wrong are stepping stones to spiritual growth.

And there is the exchange of energies between two people during sex. In some cases, these energies can cause diseases because they are very physical. One of the reasons is the social mentality, that because society has already built a stigma around it, then strong negative emotions towards this create these diseases.

There are two side effects of energy exchange during sexual intercourse which are the depletion of life force and ‘bad chemistry’. Because human beings are also energy beings, a woman or man might have accumulated unseen types of negative energies. Once you are sexually involved with them, then that type of energy is transferred to you. Negative chemistry is when two mates are involved in sexual intercourse just for the sake of it. This then because there wasn’t even an attraction between them, creates a clog in the flow of energy.

After events have occurred, the negative effects will be felt physically, environmentally, or psychologically. It’s possible that a person is not an addict or an alcoholic, but suddenly they fall into destructive behaviors; upon investigation, it’s found that they had a sexual encounter with someone before the change of habits occurred.

QUESTION: So, are you suggesting that the social mentality dictates what is right and wrong?

ANSWER: As a particle and a wave are both the same, one member of society is society itself. A society is formed around certain ideas within a specific environment; therefore reality is projected by the mass consciousness of that society. Since that society has already condemned certain behaviors, they are presumed to be wrong. It is at this point that these clusters of energies affect these behaviors in a very subtle manner by directly affecting any person attached to such behaviors. In turn, this is what many call a curse, misfortune, or bad luck. This is because specific behaviors are automatically condemned and you, as a member of that society, subconsciously adhere to these rules and punish yourself.

QUESTION: So, what about those who practice spiritual-sexual practices such as Tantrism and Kamasutra?

ANSWER: These practices are meant to open your spiritual gates so that you can access higher levels of awareness. Because sex is such a high-energy generator, it also serves as a tool to blast these channels open. Bear in mind that these practices are done with proper instruction from a master.

QUESTION: What about homosexuality?

ANSWER: Unless for reproductive purposes, homosexuality also involves a transfer of energy between two people. There are many factors that cause homosexuality to exist, which have nothing to do with nature, but the nature and origin of man. As what humans experience is only a tiny segment of the entire spectrum of reality.

QUESTION: I have read and heard a lot about spiritual or astral sex. What is this all about?

ANSWER: Spiritual sex is the fusing of one’s energy with another. This means that even during sex there are elements of psychic fusion between the two. The difference between physical sex and spiritual sex is that you are directly mixing your innate energies with another person or a being. These beings could be disembodied or have bodies but are not physically present. Furthermore, even if a person visualizes being involved with another person sexually, this can result in spiritual sex. This is as long as the other person indulges in the sexual urges stimulated by the projected vibes.